These are some suggestions to keep the lady in your life excited:

• Telephone her at work and tell her how much you want to take her clothes off and make slow passionate love to her.

• Pick her up at work, take her straight home, and straight into the bedroom.

• Arrange to meet her at an unfamiliar hotel. Tell her in what room and that you will be waiting there naked. 

• Invite her out for dinner, but insist that she wear stockings and garters and no panties.

• During dinner, discreetly slide your hand up her skirt.

• Bathe her, soaping her as intimately as you like. Dry her, and shower her with talk. Then take her to bed and give her cunnilingus until she reaches an orgasm.

• Give her cunnilingus while she's watching TV.

• Ask her what her strongest erotic fantasy is, and offer to play it out for her.

• Ask her to wear stockings and high-heeled shoes to bed.

• Tie her wrists and her ankles with scarves, and rouse her to orgasm without having intercourse with her.

• Kiss her, lingeringly, all over.

• Suggest that she tie you up and do anything she likes with you.

• Take her out into the backyard (or anywhere secluded in the open air) and make love to her under the stars.

• Give her cunnilingus immediately after intercourse, until she reaches another orgasm.

• Let her hold your penis while you urinate.

• Take her out dancing. Hold her close and tell her how much you want to make love to her.

• Cover your bed in fresh-cur flowers.

• Have a crackling fire for her when she comes home.

• Tell her all about your most arousing erotic fantasy.

• Take a home-video of your woman naked. Tell her to let herself go, to express herself any way she likes. Then make love to her while you play it back.

• Ask her to show you how she likes to have her clitoris caressed. Caress it for her, until she climaxes.

• Slide your fingers into her vagina, and give her the internal massage of her life.

• Kiss and caress her breasts for at least five minutes.

• Tell her that she turns you on.

• Buy yourself some new designer underwear.

• Buy yourself some new smart clothes.

• Write her a letter, mostly romantic but also a little erotic, telling her how much your life has changed since you met her.

• Buy her perfume, a necklace, any unexpected gift. Make it expensive. Send it for no reason at all except that she turns you on.

• Buy her some beautiful silky underwear.

• Give her an all-over massage with scented oil.

• Pay special attention to her breasts and to her vulva. Don't make love to her unless she asks you to.

• Make love to her at unexpected times, halfway through the afternoon. Out driving in the country. At work, anywhere.

• Rent an erotic video and watch it together with a bottle of good red wine.

• Shave, shower, and be waiting for her when she comes back from work, wearing nothing but a towel.

• Leave your office halfway through the day, drive home, and make love to her.

• Ask her to shave off her pubic hair (except at the very edge of the lips to reduce abrasion as it grows out).

• Shave off your pubic hair.

• Make a deal that whatever she asks you to so sexually, you'll do. and, in return, she has to do whatever you ask.

• Make yourself late for work; make love to her one more time before you leave.

• Ask her to masturbate herself to orgasm so that you can watch. Tell her that you'll do the same for her.

• Make love in front of a mirror.

• Buy her something personal that you know she's always wanted. A painting, a book, a record, an exercise cycle, whatever.

• Wake her up first thing in the morning by licking her vulva.

• Ask to watch her taking a pee.

• Take her to a topless joint or a strip club.

• Drive her someplace quiet and make love to her in the back of the car, just like you used to.

• Kiss her and caress her and see how many orgasms you can give her.

• Tell her you love her.